BEING YOU

As far as I know I never shared this story with anyone but today I felt like sharing it . I was a fun loving kid in school I had this serious problem of stammering hard words and when ever teacher used to make me read any thing hard it was my worst nightmare I used to have a problem of spelling and writing hard words and as predicted I became an easy prey for most of my fellow classmates. My childhood was beautiful nevertheless but till date if anyone ask me who was your good friend at school I would still stay numb my elementary school days were awful, I was  an Intelligent kid yet I had many flaws  but when I was in 4th grade things went so worst that I have finally decided to fight it back.I started to participate in all sorts of speaking programs I still remember when I faced the crowed for first  time I wasn't able to utter a single word (then I thought in my mind that if not now then never ) but from then to now public speaking is one of my favorite hobbies.

Latter people felt they could not make fun of my speach anymore so they started to make fun of my looks , "you look ugly" that is a common word I hear so often but at first I used to get so blank when ever some used to say that . It hurts like hell when people say that but at some moments of life you should overcome it . "Yes I'm ugly whats your problem?" just ask this question to any one who discriminate you......

Today I see many kids who are subjected to bullying  at  schools I would tell to be the TANKMAN
(the man stood in the front column of Chinese type59tanks bravely even after Chinese military forcibly removed the protesters)     

Until you are scared everyone around you will bully but it's only upto you whether you take a step or not....

In your difficulties not your parents , neither your sibling nor friends it's YOU who can save yourself....

The day when you find yourself precious no such words can harm you........  That's what I learned from my past experiences ....

The day when you get scared and sad everyone will bully you more , loose everything but not confidence and will power to fight 

Last but not the least I would like to say value yourself don't loose it for anyone's sake!!!!

Dark side of chocolate......!!!

When I remember my childhood I remember about my toys ,my school and chocolate... Chocolate is sweetest thing in any kid's life but I don't think so because can you imagine friends  kids between  6-12years  forced to work in coco fields which collectively supplies 69percent of world's coco at  Cote d'lvoire  of West Africa.  1.8 million innocent  children are are involved growing cocoa because they are subjected to slavery ..

 

Most of these kids are beaten up , half fed and literally treated like animals .

 

Most of us even never tie our pet dogs but these kids are even tied up ..

We are in 21st century where world is moving fast at one part and  it is still a shameful fact that the other part of world  is in trafficking  and slavery. 

What is pleasure of eating chocolate when it is mixed with tears and pain of these  children .....

I  posted about this so that I could bring awareness and if people combine together to fight for these kids may be someday they will get  their freedom.

Can you imagine guys kids of same age as kids at your home forced to work day and night in cocoa fields who don't even know why they are doing it and  who never ever tasted chocolate !!!

I know it is difficult to stand  and shout about this in this huge world but it is not impossible if we spread it through social media. I did my part and I hope people who read this will spread about it!!!

I wish some day these kids go to school ,have  a normal childhood and above all I wish they learn to dream.

Is Suicide a crime????

Hello friends, today I may have come with a negative topic but it is a question that is been wondering in my mind since a long time, seriously friends I don't feel suicide is a crime . People might think what the hell she is saying but....

2years back I heard the story of a 12year old girl Lakshmi , she was gang raped while  returning from school . 5months later she committed suicide  unable to handle the pressure, just imagine 12year old kid thought of ending her life, when I was 12year old I don't even know what suicide is. Just imagine her feeling when the society and her parents treated her as sin and the bastards who raped her were released on bail after 15days . So if that child committed suicide society had a big hand in it.  Just imagine friends how many kids like Lakshmi  might be dying because of discrimination . Those criminals might be living happy as no one question them. 

For every 40seconds one person die committing suicide. Are  they really dying because they are cowards??? They are dying because they don't have answers??? 

In 2008 three sisters from Gujarat  committed suicide because they were HIV positives, all thought they did so because of their disease but the real reason was different .   Aren't we taught from childhood that AIDS don't spread through air or by touching or being with them ??!  Why do many us forget that! These three kids died because they were discriminated to such extent that  nor children and even the teacher used to not even enter the class room in their presence , their relatives started to hate them and their school principle gave them termination letter for no mistake .  I don't think they were cowards. If society is not letting them live obviously people think of death.

Normally people say that cowards commit suicide but I think it take lot of guts to die, If a person is dying its not completely his mistake its partially the mistake of the society too.

Once I heard about a 21year old girl from Orissa  who committed suicide as she was stripped infront of all villagers for loving somebody from the other tribe in rural India. She committed suicide unable to bare the insult . She was 21 she had right to make her own  decisions how could some one just do that to her.

you wont believe it friends but in many parts of world  people even commit mass suicides. Isn't it weird cause human is the only living being which end its life forcefully in emotions. I don't say suicide is correct its just that people consider it as crime.

There are many moments in everyone's life when we feel we lost everything and don't felt like living but for most of us are lucky as there are always people around us who console us , comfort us in such situations. I feel sad for those other half of people with dark past that we dint create any system to console them.

I don't understand why most of them treat disabled people, people from streets and people subjected to various abuse as if its their fault, If the society treated them good I don't think the above people or people  like them would have ended their lives .

If one is dealing with his own mental pressure  and ended his life it is their own mistake but if people are discriminated and forced to end their own life it is not completely their mistake but it is partially mistake of society.

My intention of writing this post is not to support suicides but I just wanted to share the dark side of society, some where  I feel sympathetic towards these people. I know we cant heel the entire world but we can try to change it after all what matters is change! 

Human every day........

Every morning I see kids between 10-12years  who come to deliver newspapers and milk packets to people living in our apartment  , no matter how long the stairs are no kid ever take elevator sometimes I call them to share the elevator but they wont come . Once I asked one of the kids why they don't use elevator he said that the watchman won't allow them when I asked the watchman he said that the people in the apartment get angry on him if he allow them to use  elevator as they are poor kids . I felt so shameful listening to this because even in this 21st century how can people think so ill minded , all the maids, workers who come daily  use the stairs no matter how long they are and I wonder these people who call themselves  rich how can they smile seeing others in pain.

"We need to forget what we think we are so that we can really  become what we are" 

There is one delicious cake looking at it if we ate the entire cake in greed no matter how tasty it is it can only full fill our greed and in same case if we share it with others it will leave some wonderful moments . Life is just like that delicious cake if we live it for oneself  no matter how rich we become one day we will die in greed and loneliness and that feeling is worst than hell. But if we share it with everyone not caring  how inferior they are and how superior we are at the end of our days it will leave us some amazing experiences, wonderful feelings and above all  people to care us.

"A dream which you dream alone is only a dream , a dream which you dream together is reality"

Isn't it amazing living each and every bit of our life knowing that many people are happy because of us and some slight feeling in the corner of our heart saying that "you are doing a good job". 

So it is our choice to make whether to be a human or a masked person with the name of human......!!!  

~ LIFE ~

Life isn't about finding yourself

Life is all about creating yourself....

Amazing lines isn't it friends........!!!!

Life is all about out how we live it guys, lately I have been living with my grandma and she is continuously complaining her life . I just don't understand  in life many people live in the relations which they don't like , I know any relationship is great at the beginning but it becomes lousy and suffocating for some as it pass by and in that movement they cant go out of it  for the sake of their kids and they start this commitment , I may be young to talk about this but I feel suffocated seeing this commitments from past few years.......

I think the people who think they dint achieve in their life when they got old  dint gave second chance to life and dint gave second chances to their relationship which is on rocks .

Life is not a matter of milestones

but it is the matter of moments.

When I become old I definitely don't want to live under  any ones roof , I want to be adventurous , crazy and Independent as I'm...

 I used to cross a slum for going to the college and when I used to see those people I used to thank god for giving me better life where I can get good education and better facilities.

We are the one who ultimately sketch our lives , the people who discourage us don't really know about us and two things we should always decide ourselves they are  our career and relationships.

I understood that belief is the main factor of the life if you believe in life you can go through any obstacle that have come by.

 

~Love Story~

This story is about a  girl who loved a boy and a boy who hated that girl , she perused him telling about her feelings but he ignored her, she stood behind him in all his troubles and he merely used her helping nature and loving heart .  She tried her best to let him know how she feels for him but he never realised it and one day...........................

One day the girl died in a accident and when the boy got the news the very next moment he realised that  he is in love with that girl.

I have read this story in book and dint dare read it further because its really emotional one but guys I really learned on thing from this story  ,

Sometimes even we are with people who love us we don't realise it and we take their love and affection in negative way but we really realise its importance when we loose those special people. So friends even if we got wealth and affordable life we really lack something that is happiness  and that rests within the special people who love and care us , just realise it before its too late.

*Moral*

Once upon a time there lived a guru , he had three disciples . After  their 12years of  training, the guru called three of them and said their training will only be completed if they cross a small path shown by the guru, the disciples agreed.


The guru took the disciples to that path  , the disciples were shocked by seeing that path because that path was full of spines and thorns .


The first disciple crossed the path by himself with all difficulty , the second covered his feet with leaves and crossed the path but the third disciple took a broom and started cleaning the path even he got hurt and eventually crossed. 

when he was asked by the guru he said " I know  the difficulty of crossing this road , I don't want others to face the same"


The guru turned to other two disciples and  told them that they still need training on education  and turned to the third disciple and said he is graduated.

Really guys what is the use of knowledge if is not in progress , our education teach us many morals but how many are following them in real life . 

Our education teach us to help others not to kill, it teach us to serve the humankind and spread its knowledge for peace....

Bad luck  only few of us apply it in real life, how many think of serving others these days, question is with us and even answer is with us.
                                   ~in a new hope~